Time is flying never to return.
-- Virgil
~
-It is not enough to succed. Others must fail.
+It is not enough to succeed. Others must fail.
-- Gore Vidal
~
There's a lot to be said for being noveau riche,
-- from "Luminous Heart: The Third Karmapa on Consciousness, Wisdom, and
Buddha Nature", translated by Karl Brunnhölzl, published by Shambhala
Publications
+~
+ It is possible to mistake attachment for loving-kindness and compassion.
+Love and compassion are distinguished from attachment in that they apply
+equally to your friends and your enemies. Genuine love and compassion make no
+distinction based on your relationship to the object of compassion. They are
+the wish that all sentient beings without exception have happiness and the
+causes of happiness, and the wish that all sentient beings without exception
+be free of suffering and the causes of suffering. The keynote of those two
+attitudes is that there is no hope involved of any kind of return or any sort
+of personal satisfaction as a result of the happiness of others.
+ In the case of attachment to someone, you wish that person well but it is
+based on an identification with him or her as “my friend, my son, my
+daughter.” This identification and this feeling of ownership or
+territoriality is related to wanting some kind of return. You enjoy the
+happiness of that person because you have identified with him or her, and
+therefore in essence it is just wishing for your own benefit. Such attachment
+can very easily turn to aversion, anger, and hatred. That is the difference
+between compassion and attachment.
+ -- Khenpo Karthar Rinpoche, from "The Instructions of Gampopa: A Precious
+ Garland of the Supreme Path", published by Shambhala Publications.
+~
+Sometimes it seems as if the mind is outside someplace. We see all these
+things outside. We see mountains or we hear echoes off of cliffs. We have
+all these different thoughts of different places, and the mind seems to go to
+those places when we think about them. But it only seems that way; the mind
+is not really outside of us either. It dwells neither in external objects nor
+someplace in the body--we cannot find any place in the body where it is. You
+might then think that since it is not in the body and it is not outside the
+body, it must be in the empty space in between. But if you look, you cannot
+find it. We need to look and become certain that the mind has no dwelling
+place--we must be certain that there is no real place that we can we can
+point to and say, “Aha! That’s where it is!”
+ -- Khenchen Thrangu, "Vivid Awareness: The Mind Instructions of Khenpo
+ Gangshar", published by Shambhala Publications.
+~
+Not only are our adverse experiences beneficial for our own path, but they are
+the best way for us to connect with others. Suffering is a universal
+experience. This is why the Buddha chose suffering as the first topic of his
+teachings. So when we connect with our own suffering, we can also recall that
+many beings all over the world are having similar experiences. This helps us
+develop understanding, love, and compassion for others.
+ -- Rose Taylor Goldfield, in "Training the Wisdom Body: Buddhist Yogic
+ Exercise", published by Shambhala Publications.
+