ourselves to staying open?"
-- Elizabeth Mattis-Namgyel, "The Power of an Open Question: The Buddha’s
Path to Freedom", published by Shambhala Publications
-
+~
+ Recognizing the instability of causes and conditions leads us to understand
+our own power to transform obstacles and make the impossible possible. This
+is true in every area of life. If you don’t have a Ferrari, you very well
+may create the conditions to have one. As long as there is a Ferrari, there
+is the opportunity for you to own one. Likewise if you want to live longer,
+you can choose to stop smoking and exercise more. There is reasonable hope.
+Hopelessness--just like its opposite, blind hope--is the result of a belief
+in permanence.
+ You can transform not only your physical world but your emotional world,
+for example, turning agitation into peace of mind by letting go of ambition or
+turning low self-respect into confidence by acting out of kindness and
+philanthropy. If we all condition ourselves to put our feet in other
+people’s shoes, we will cultivate peace in our homes, with our neighbors,
+and with other countries.
+ -- Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse, "What Makes You Not a Buddhist", published by
+ Shambhala Publications
+~
+On the path of seeing there is (1) mindfulness whereby one does not forget the
+object, the truth; (2) the wisdom of perfect discernment with regard to the
+object; (3) diligence, delight in virtue, being assiduous in undertaking what
+is right and avoiding what is wrong in accordance with the path; (4) joy or
+mental happiness regarding the latter; (5) flexibility, in which mind and body
+function appropriately; (6) concentration; and (7) evenness, in which the mind
+enters the natural state, free from the conditions of lack of clarity and
+wildness. These seven are elements of the path of seeing, the essence of
+enlightenment. They will make one accumulate or accomplish the positive
+actions that help one attain nirvana.
+ -- Nagarjuna, "Nagarjuna's Letter to a Friend"
+~
+ What is the relationship between bodhichitta and love? When you are in
+love, your heart and mind are naturally open and awake to life. When you
+cultivate bodhichitta by opening and awakening your heart and mind, love can
+flow and grow.
+ Bodhichitta is like opening the curtains, and love is like the sun shining
+through, bringing light and warmth into the room. Or we could say that
+bodhichitta is like opening the window, and love is the cool breeze that
+refreshes the stuffiness and stagnation of living inside a personal fortress.
+Bodhichitta is like discovering an inexhaustible treasure, and love is its
+enjoyment. Bodhichitta is our direct connection with basic goodness.
+ -- Moh Hardin, from "A Little Book of Love", published by Shambhala Pub.
+~
+ Use mindfulness to become aware of these negative thoughts as they arise.
+For example, when the first thought of anger arises, notice it and don’t let
+it multiply. Instead, remember what happened in the past when you were
+overwhelmed by anger. Based on your direct experience, see the suffering and
+problems anger caused you and recognize its defects. You can crush anger
+using antidotes once you clearly see it as something destructive.
+ You can find a particular antidote to destroy each afflictive emotion. To
+conquer desire, you can meditate on the unappealing aspects of the object; for
+hatred, meditate on loving-kindness; for jealousy, joy; and so on. This is
+how you discard negative mental factors.
+ -- Shechen Rabjam, from "The Great Medicine That Conquers Clinging to the
+ Notion of Reality", published by Shambhala Publications