for our pain.
-- Pema Chödrön, "Living Beautifully with Uncertainty and Change",
published by Shambhala Publications
+~
+During lifetimes spent wandering in the round of rebirth without beginning or
+end, your present enemies were once extremely beneficial friends and your
+present friends were once harmful enemies. Moreover, if you do not consider
+present enemies as such, but treat them helpfully as friends, it is possible
+that they will prove even more helpful than friends. Therefore, rest in
+equanimity toward others: give up attachment to friends and reject hatred
+toward enemies.
+ -- Choying Tobden Dorje, from "The Complete Nyingma Tradition from Sutra to
+ Tantra, Books 1 to 10", published by Shambhala Publications
+